Although gay men are the most visible demographic of the leather community, there are numerous women who identify as leatherwomen - and women have the International Ms. If your first night at the nearest leather bar is a letdown, try again. Retrieved 23 June For lots of kinky people, we knew we were kinky before we knew we were gay. Outline of BDSM. Most of the hanky code is lost to antiquity. This is frustratingly true for many gay bars that cater to non-kinky clientele.
Like everything I write, the intent of this piece is to break down the stigmas surrounding the sex lives of gay men.
Hats and Gloves. If someone is tied and gagged and being led around via collar and leash, ask the person holding their collar. Whitfield is concerned that the unique atmosphere of a leather bar will be lost to history.
Be a good boy.