While in the bathroom, you call a taxi or an Uber and you come back to the bar and say, "Hey, I've been having a great time. The list can go on and on. There are no special characters allowed. Just because "Bryce" dates like a mad man doesn't mean he's more datable than you. No matter how good or bad it tasted, you probably wouldn't buy it. It's not uncommon, however, to find a guy online that you really like but your sexual roles don't match up. Make a list of his qualities and don't limit yourself to physical attributes- personality traits and details about his lifestyle is he out, closeted, curious are very important.
And the most successful guys are those that know their market and the product they're presenting—themselves.
You've broken the ice and started to engage him. That old saying, "You can lead a horse to water but you can't make it drink from the pool"? One evening, make it simply about holding a man's gaze. Cassandra Rose.